5 years after first cases, Manitoba families who lost loved ones to COVID-19 still feel missed moments
Retired nurse Valerie Alderson reflects on the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on her family, particularly the loss of her father, Lloyd Hodgins, who passed away in November 2021 due to complications from the virus. She vividly remembers the pain of not being able to be by his side during his final moments, as hospital restrictions prevented visitors.
Alderson stresses the importance of being present for loved ones in their time of need, whether it’s holding their hand, reading to them, or simply offering comfort. She laments the missed opportunity to say goodbye to her father and the lasting emotional toll it has taken on her.
Similarly, Justin Dusik shares his experience of losing both of his grandparents to COVID-19 within a short span of time. He recalls the heart-wrenching moment of watching his grandfather pass away via video call, unable to be physically present due to pandemic restrictions.
The lack of in-person support during such difficult times has left a lasting impact on Alderson, Dusik, and many others who have lost loved ones during the pandemic. They carry the weight of those moments with them, even as time passes and life continues.
Laura Tamblyn Watts, CEO of CanAge, highlights the emotional trauma experienced by both families and healthcare workers as a result of strict visitor policies in hospitals. She emphasizes the need for social connection and human compassion in healthcare settings, suggesting that alternative safety measures could have been implemented to allow for more meaningful interactions.
Looking ahead, Alderson expresses concern about the future of Manitoba’s healthcare system and hopes that lessons learned from the pandemic will lead to improved protocols for patient and staff safety. Tamblyn Watts echoes these sentiments, warning against complacency in the face of future health crises.
As we navigate the ongoing challenges of the pandemic and prepare for what lies ahead, the stories of Alderson, Dusik, and others serve as a reminder of the importance of empathy, connection, and resilience in times of crisis. Their experiences shed light on the profound impact of loss and the enduring need for human connection in healthcare settings.
