Low libido, intercourse pain, orgasm problems? Sexual-health doctors are trying to help

Sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, yet many women struggle in silence with common issues such as low libido, difficulty achieving orgasm, and pain during intercourse. While help for male sexual dysfunction has been widely available for years, women’s sexual health has often been overlooked and shrouded in secrecy. However, a small number of Canadian doctors specializing in women’s sexual health are working to change that narrative.

Dr. Stephanie Finn, a family doctor based in Oakville, Ontario, is one of five Canadian doctors trained by the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH). She has seen a significant need for support in women’s sexual health and has decided to focus her practice on sexual medicine. Finn emphasizes the importance of educating women about their bodies, as many have a limited understanding of their own anatomy. She offers patients the option of holding a mirror while she gives them a guided tour of their genitalia or uses a 3D model to explain key structures like the clitoris.

Dr. Stephanie Hart, another ISSWSH-trained family doctor from Okotoks, Alberta, highlights the cultural shame and stigma that often surrounds discussions of women’s sexual health. Many women feel uncomfortable seeking help for sexual issues due to societal attitudes that view vaginas as dirty or sex as shameful. Despite these challenges, specialized clinics for women’s sexual health are in high demand, with patients seeking help for a range of issues from pain during sex to low libido.

Carolina Jara, 57, shares her experience of struggling with low libido since menopause and the impact it has had on her relationship with her husband. While there are medications available to increase sexual desire in women, such as flibanserin and bremelanotide, critics argue that relationship counselling may be a more effective solution for mismatched libidos. Additionally, non-medical tools like clitoral suction devices can help improve blood flow and sexual satisfaction for women.

Pain during sex is another common issue that many women face, regardless of age. Talia Steele, 34, shares her journey of dealing with pain during sex stemming from a urinary tract infection and subsequent surgeries. She emphasizes the lasting effects of these experiences on her mental health and relationships, highlighting the importance of holistic care for women’s sexual health.

Dr. Hart is on a mission to educate other doctors on how to support women with sexual health issues, starting with asking the right questions and knowing what treatment options are available. By breaking the silence and stigma surrounding women’s sexual health, these doctors are paving the way for better support and care for women across Canada.

In conclusion, women’s sexual health is a vital aspect of overall well-being that deserves more attention and support. Through specialized clinics and dedicated doctors like Dr. Finn and Dr. Hart, women are finding the help and resources they need to address common sexual issues and improve their quality of life.