As a child, American Grammy-nominee Neko Case thought she was Canadian. She still feels close to the country

Growing up in Washington state, Neko Case always felt a strong connection to Canada. Living near the U.S.-Canada border, she grew up watching Canadian television shows like “The Friendly Giant” and “Mr. Dressup,” which led her to believe she was actually living in Canada. It wasn’t until a school assignment that she realized she was, in fact, American.

Despite this realization, Case still feels a deep cultural bond with Canada. This connection to the country is explored in her new memoir, “The Harder I Fight The More I Love You,” where she delves into her childhood and the experiences that shaped her into the Grammy-nominated musician she is today.

When approached by Grand Central Publishing to write a memoir, Case initially thought she would be writing fiction. However, the publisher saw the potential for a powerful memoir that would explore the depths of Case’s life and career. In the book, she opens up about her childhood, which was often spent alone and filled with rage.

The cover of the memoir features a young girl holding a cat, with a black monster symbolizing her rage looming behind her. For Case, music has been a way to channel and control this rage, describing it as “making lace out of rage.” Starting as a drummer in her teens, Case eventually found her voice as a singer, known for her haunting vocals on introspective tracks.

Despite her shy nature, Case gradually stepped into the spotlight and embraced her passion for music. Describing it as a “consuming desire,” she credits music as being an integral part of who she is. This journey led her to Vancouver in 1994, where she attended art school and became a part of the indie band The New Pornographers.

During her time in Vancouver, Case gained a deeper understanding of the differences between the United States and Canada. She appreciated the subtleties and kindness of Canadian culture, contrasting it with the more outwardly aggressive nature of Americans. This experience solidified her love for Canada and its people, making her feel like an honorary Canadian in many ways.

As Case’s memoir hits the shelves, readers are given a glimpse into the life of a musician whose journey has been shaped by childhood experiences, personal struggles, and a deep connection to the country she once believed she was a part of. Through her storytelling and introspection, Case invites readers to explore the complexities of her life and the emotions that have fueled her music career.