Aging seniors and assisted living: 3 signs it may be time to make a move

As our parents age, the question of when to provide living support becomes more pressing. Dr. Macie P. Smith, a licensed social worker and gerontologist, shared some key signs that indicate it may be time to consider hiring help or moving a loved one to a living facility.

One major red flag is if a senior is at risk of harming themselves. This could be due to forgetfulness, mobility issues, or other factors that make it dangerous for them to live alone. In cases where memory loss is a concern, particularly with diseases like Alzheimer’s or dementia, it may be necessary to seek out living support. Forgetting familiar tasks, struggling with nutrition, or having difficulty making decisions are all signs that support may be needed.

Repetition of thoughts is another common sign in individuals with cognitive impairments. If your loved one is repeating themselves frequently, it could be a sign that they are feeling lonely and in need of attention and companionship.

Making the decision to place a loved one in care can be incredibly difficult, but it’s important to involve them in the conversation and respect their autonomy. Dr. Smith emphasized the importance of not assuming that a senior will be resistant to the idea of receiving help. Instead, approach the conversation with respect and understanding, and ensure that they feel safe and familiar in their new living situation.

Ultimately, the goal is to provide support and services that allow our aging loved ones to maintain their independence and quality of life. By being proactive and attentive to their needs, we can ensure that they receive the care and assistance they require while still preserving their dignity and autonomy.