N.S. man abused by father brings message of hope to sexual violence march
A survivor of sexual abuse from Pictou County, N.S., has bravely come forward after keeping his trauma a secret for nearly five decades. Doug Robertson, who suffered abuse at the hands of his father, shared his story at a march to end sexual violence organized by the Colchester Sexual Assault Centre.
Despite the fear and shame that held him back for so long, Robertson took the courageous step of reporting his father to the police in 2023. His father, Douglas Guthro Sr., later pleaded guilty to crimes of historical sexual violence against all three of his children. Robertson and his sisters chose to waive their right to anonymity in order to speak out about the horrific experiences they endured.
Speaking at the march, Robertson emphasized the importance of breaking the silence surrounding sexual violence. He likened the burden of staying silent to a “little monster on my shoulder” and urged other survivors to seek help and support. Robertson’s decision to speak out has empowered him to take back control of his life and begin the healing process.
The march, which saw around 50 participants carrying signs and wearing blue hats with the message “End The Silence,” aimed to raise awareness about sexual violence and support survivors in their journey to healing. Lorna Gero, director of fund development at the Colchester Sexual Assault Centre, commended Robertson for his courage and resilience in sharing his story.
The event also highlighted the urgent need for resources to support survivors of intimate partner violence, which has been declared an epidemic in Nova Scotia. With the province grappling with a series of tragic deaths linked to domestic violence, the march served as a platform to advocate for greater awareness and support for survivors.
Robertson’s decision to change his last name to distance himself from his abuser underscores the lasting impact of trauma and the financial burdens survivors often face. By participating in the march and raising funds for survivors, Robertson and others hope to create a more supportive and compassionate community for those affected by sexual violence.
As Robertson continues on his healing journey, he hopes that his story will inspire others to break their silence and seek the help they deserve. The march to end sexual violence served as a powerful reminder of the resilience and strength of survivors, and the importance of coming together to support and empower each other.
