God, what has she done? Chappell Roan says parents are ‘in hell’ and sparks some tough talks

It’s always nice to get some outside validation, right? At least, that’s how some people are reacting after pop superstar Chappell Roan recently made some controversial comments about parents on the Call Her Daddy podcast. Roan’s statement that parents seem pretty miserable — “in hell,” actually, has sparked a mix of reactions from stressed parents feeling seen to angered individuals defending the joys of parenthood.

The Grammy-winning best new artist, known for hits like Good Luck, Babe!, Red Wine Supernova, Hot To Go!, and Pink Pony Club, shared her perspective on parenting during a conversation about her friends who are now married with kids. Roan, who is openly queer, expressed her observations that all of her friends with children are in a state of misery, lacking happiness and sleep.

While Roan’s comments may have struck a nerve with some, they also shed light on the modern challenges faced by parents. The intensification of parenting, rising costs of living, social media pressures, and the youth mental health crisis are just a few of the factors contributing to the stress and burnout experienced by many parents today. The lack of systemic support for parents has also been highlighted as a significant issue, with many feeling overwhelmed and unsupported in their parenting journey.

The reactions to Roan’s comments have been varied, with some agreeing with her assessment of parenting as a challenging experience, while others have criticized her for being out of touch with reality. Singer Maren Morris weighed in on the discussion, acknowledging the difficulties of parenting while also highlighting the societal factors that contribute to the perceived misery of parents.

Ultimately, the conversation sparked by Roan’s comments raises important questions about the state of modern parenting and the need for greater support for parents. While parenting may indeed be a challenging and exhausting experience at times, it’s crucial to address the underlying issues that contribute to this sense of overwhelm and ensure that parents have the resources and support they need to thrive.